Sex survey: More now, less, same?
This is an informal sex survey. Are you getting more sex now after WLS, about the same, or less? How does the old body work now that it is lighter? More flexible?
I'll go first. HE wants me more than ever. I am perimenopausal with hot flashes, so I am either not interested or super horny. Go figure! I think I make him nuts, since he never knows what to expect.
I am definitely more energetic and flexible. Things will change again after his surgery on the 8th.
He wants it most of the time, I want it all of the time, he's never home and when he is... he is sleweping and I am doig homework. UGH! SO NOT FAIR!!!
Although he is on his way home from TX right now... he just called me from a Dallas/Fort Worth McDonald's.... he is getting in his fast food fix before he comes home to me, I guess! LOL! This weekend when he coes home we are going to rent a cabin on base for a day/night and DJ is going to my friend's house! Hehehehehehe....
Only thing that really sucks is that I am on my 11th day of not stopping my "monthly"...ugh... this patch has caused me to plataeu and to flow slowly and steadily for almost two weeks! UGH!!!! I hate this but at least I am not getting anemic emergencies anymore! Just screws with my sex life now. UGH!
Brightest Blessings for a Wonderful Day~
Jamie M.
aka Lady Autumn
Weight- 257/168/146 (+4 lbs. this week)
BMI- 44.1/28.8/25
Height- 5'4" Total Weight Loss: -89 lbs.
Surgery Date- 1/19/05
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I want it more now since WLS. Unfortunately my dh is 17 yrs older than me and since he is having to work out in this heat...the poor boy just ain't got it in him! Hopefully that will change when these 95 + temps go away in the fall. I still manage to get him on Sundays from time to time LOL! Don't ya just love the stuff we can talk about on this board?
Denise
283/196/140
lap RNY 1/27/05