Strange reaction to Compliments

I find myself saying the strangest thing when I get a compliment about my weight loss. I often say that I shouldn't take any credit because you really have no choice once you have the surgery. It's not a matter of will-power anymore. Gez, after thinking about it, at least I was brave enough to go through with the surgery, right? Anyone feeling like this?

I find that I feel compelled to tell people I had surgery when I receive a compliment. For the first time yesterday and then again today I just said thank you but one gal was very persistant wanting to know how I lost all that weight,what was my secret.... I avoided telling her but somehow felt I wasn't being totally truthful. I don't think I should have to tell people but I can't seem to shake the guilt of feeling like I took credit for something that I had enormous help with. So, my advice is to stand tall and say thank you and don't necessarily tell anymore. And you are right, it was brave to go through the surgery. Take care, Rhonda

I give credit where it is do... I owe thanks to my surgeon and to myself. Typically I don't mention that I had surgery b/c what business is it of theres... KWIM? I certainly don't hide it though and if asked, I answer all questions! Brightest Blessings for a Wonderful Day~ Jamie M. aka Lady Autumn Weight- 257/176/146 BMI- 44.1/30.2/25 Height- 5'4" Total Weight Loss: -81 lbs. Surgery Date- 1/19/05 Visit my OH profile or stop by My Weight Loss Journey Website at: home.bellsouth.net/p/PWP-LadyAutumnsWLSjourney My Live Journal is at: livejournal.com/users/magickalmom/