Dealing with negative comments

OMG, this all sounds like me too. My boss told my coworker that she must be losing weight when she is very thin and never made a comment to me yet. My mother and sisters were never told I was having the surgery and since they have found out, 33lbs later, to date they have not said a word about it to me. They haven't even ask me if I am feeling better or God forbid make a comment about the weight loss. Go figure. I believe these people are jealous and insecure. I will continue to pray for their souls and ask God to forgive my feelings toward their selfishness. Good luck to all of you wonderful people who chose to take control of your lives. Remember, that we are all in this together. Bless you, Take Care, Syndi