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Topic: RE: I'm fed up!
Your sisters probably aren't going to change. Look in other places for your support. It is also possible that they really can't see the weight loss at this time. I had lost almost 100 lbs before people really began to notice. Now a day seldom goes by that somebody doesn't mention how good I am looking.
Another possibility is that if they admit it is working for you they fear somebody will expect them to have the surgery. Denial is a tool many people hold onto. If they can deny that the weight is effecting their health then it's not important.
My sister is very large, has had 4 baloon procedures to clear blockages, etc. She is the least supportive person I know. She has recently started Dr. Atkins, which I lost 58 Lbs on prior to surgery. My weight loss must be driving her nuts because she seemed to have no interest in dieting until my weight loss became obvious.
I am lucky to have the best friends and co-workers who provide all the support I need. My friends & extended family call weekly to check on my weight loss. Monday morning my co-workers all ask how much I lost when I weighed on Sunday, etc. They make a big deal over new clothes (or old ones brought from the back of the closet) when I wear them.
I have an Aunt who is my age and she has been very vocal from the beginning that I wasn't going to get ahead of her. She is very supportive of my weight loss but she is on a diet also. Says I am not going to get skinnier than her. We enjoy teasing back and forth about the weight but I have been an incentive for her and that makes me happy. She probably needs to lose half the amount I need to lose.
The only person you can change is yourself. Don't let them put a damper on this experience for you. Love yourself and it won't matter so much when they aren't supportive. You know you made the right decision for your health so you don't have to explain anything to them.
Best of luck to you.
Topic: RE: hair loss
I read on one of the messageboards about Biotin...several ladies used it and say it worked well for them...it is for hair and nails.... I just purchased it Saturday at a health food store. I got the high potency formula... It's supposed to be an excellent product...good luck!
V.
Topic: RE: PLEASE SHARE
I sat at home in the morning ............ he took the kids fishing on the boat........ Then I went to work all night!
Topic: RE: hair loss
I get my protein from GNC.......... You can mix it in your drinks..........and there are different flavors as well.........alot better then the shakes... and you can also bring it back if you do not like it! I take prenatal vitimins.........they help with hair and nail growth........ My doc prescribed them....... Good Luck
Topic: RE: hair loss
I have had good luck in this department, so far, knock on wood. My hair actually feels fuller. Weird, huh?
All the best,
Kris
1/28/04
452/337/180
Topic: RE: PLEASE SHARE
Well, my boys and I went to church, I called my mom in Ohio, went to my MIL's house, went to a birthday party, then went to Target and my husband bought me a CD walkman. We went to eat at Bob Evans to eat and hubby went to work and I went for my 2 mile walk with my new walkman. Busy day, but good.
All the best,
Kris
452/337/180
Topic: RE: hair loss
Hi Kelley!
Yeah - I have been losing hair pretty aggressively for the last 3 to 4 weeks. I get ALL of my protein and then some in everyday - so it isn't just the missing protein that causes it. I started taking hair and nail from GNC - it worked for me last time my hair was getting brittle. Other than that - there really isn't a whole lot that works - or at least according to those who've been there before us. I guess it is a small price to pay for rapid weight loss.
Keep your chin up and close your eyes when you clean out the hair brush - that's what I have to do!
Barbie
281/228/150ish
Topic: hair loss
I was wondering how many of you are experiencing hair loss and what you are doing about it. I am finding it difficult to get all my protein in becuase I still do not tolerate meat well. It seems that soft things go down so much easier but they are higher in carbs and lower in protien. I am using a special shampoo--Nioxin and taking my bariatric vitamens. Just wondered how you all are doing.
Kelley (down 75 pounds since 1/06)
Topic: RE: Finally feeling good
Michele I'm so glad your feeling better. You will be in my prayers also for a speedy recovery. Take Care LOL Sharon
Topic: PLEASE SHARE
Hello please share how you spent your mothers day. When I got up this morning I had flowers on my sewing machine with cards from my sons. WE cooked out for lunch. Oh boy I ate too much. Its nice having my oldest son home from college. Hope everyone had a GREAT day