Very Important Question!!

4 days post-op. I have a family occation to go to today. Don't really feel like going, but it is for my Husband (his family) Anyway, my Question is: I had Lap RNY, Girdle or no Girdle. All my dressing fit horrible without one, will it hurt too much, or will it sort of act like a binder? Please help, leaving in 2 hours>>>>>>

I'm late.. but I say NO.. no girdle.. don't worry about fit.. I can barely stand a waistband on my incisions for very long.. ~ Jan