Question:
IN NEED OF A SODA....HELP!!!!

I am only 13 days post op and I know that can't have sodas and sweets and such but my question is, will I ever be able to to have sodas and sweets (candy bars, snack cakes, etc.) again???    — PoohBearNC (posted on July 2, 2006)


July 2, 2006
NO,NO,NO. Im sorry but once you have been off of them for a while you wont miss them. Something sweet to Drink try Propel, Try a protein bar cakes i dont have any suggestions, try something that is Sugar Free,
   — JAR

July 2, 2006
Yes, in about a year, you'll be able to enjoy sodas and sweets again. My partner is almost 3 years out and she eats anything she wants -- although she can eat it and her system takes it, she doesn't eat too much. As a person who has supported another person -- don't eat too fast, don't try to eat things you used to eat too soon -- give it a good six months -- drink your water -- blah, blah, blah. Just follow your doctor's orders and you will be fine.
   — the7thdean

July 2, 2006
hi chris I am 15 months out and I tried a sip of soda and it felt like I was having a heart attack.... I also have sugar free desserts .... remember you can not get away from sugar completly as it is in everything.... but you can eliminat it the best you can... I have a SF banana pudding thats wonderful... if and when you ever decide to have some.... BUT your early in your post op stage... I wouldnt go there now... And some can NEVER do sweets as it makes them Dump as it does me... A few small bites of SF something and I am done... pop will not be in my menue as it hurts to bad... Re read why you had this surgery to start with..... and try to not go back to the old ways.... Good Luck Chris.... Flo
   — Flo

July 2, 2006
Try Popsicle brand sugar free rootbeer, dr pepper and orange crush popsicles or a sugar free hard candy. To answer your queation, yes in a year or two you may be able to eat anything you want. I'm 4 years post op and I can eat anything, I also gained back 58lbs of the 167lbs that I lost. I have just recently gone back to the basics and lost 9 of those pounds only 49 more to go. Try to make a change and stick with it if you want to keep all the pounds your going to lose off otherwise you can and will put it all back on.
   — bassett

July 2, 2006
you have gone through a great journey. why would you want to go through all this effort just to have a drink, and some candy. It is your body, no one can tell you what to do, this is all up to you
   — Steve Cohen

July 2, 2006
My first thought is to ask, why you want some junk food? One of the factors that goes into preparation for surgery is looking at the way we have eaten, and learning to look at more healthy ways of eating in the future. It is akin to the alcoholic asking if after being sober for awhile, will they be able to have a drink again. The short answer is "NO, if you want to keep eating more responsibly" Or "Just for today I choose not to eat sweets or sodas" My own experience has been, sodas, I don't understand why I ever started drinking them. It has been almost 9 months since I have had a soda or caffeine. Sweets, I had 2 oz of a DQ Blizzard and experienced dumping, it was not worth it. Again there are too many good foods out there that I can eat responsibly without out taking a hit with sugar and fats. I spent fifty years making poor food choices, for me I am looking at trying fifty years with making good food choices and being slim and trim. Gary 5 months out 74lbs down and from 52 to 42 waist.
   — DeadLaker

July 2, 2006
I still dont have "sweets" cravings but I was never much of a "sweets" person anyways. I DID however think I was going to DIE for a SODA :) lol I basically shook the carbonation out of a soda for a couple of hours...I shook it until I could drop ti on the floor and it didnt make a single bubble. It was SUPER flat but the flavor of it gave me my soda FIX.... it WAS diet though so dont push it... Some of the southbeach protein bars are REALLY good if you need a SWEET fix but just dont over do it or this is all for nothing....you know... :) TAke care and good luck :)
   — Tryna J.

July 2, 2006
I would say not to worry about that right now to be honest with you. Seeing as how you're only 13 days out, to me it sounds like you're fighting a bit of head hunger. Don't worry, it's normal, I went through the same thing. I was too scared to drink soda............was told the carbonation could blow my new stomache up and hurt me. I'm now 27 months post op and I will drink the occassional soda, but to be honest with you, my body YELLS for water afterwards. Good luck with your quest.
   — cedsangel

July 2, 2006
Hi Darling! I sympathize with your plight! I was a soda ADDICT for 25 years, drinking 2-4 liters a day. Now, I am almost 1 year post-op and soda free. I did get some of the sugar-free syrups in root beer and coke flavor in the beginning, and they helped satisfy the jonesing. Now I drink propel, plain water and diet green tea. I somethimes miss the soda, but I think of how they contributed to my weighing over 400 pounds, and I never want to go back to that lifestyle AGAIN!. There are some sugar free candies, frozen pops and fudgcicles that help with cravings, and I may indulge occasionally. I try to remember all the work I did to lose 200 pounds, and how I NEVER want to be there again. I was such a foodie, and if I can do it, you can do it too. Have faith! Fond wishes, Pam
   — pjwilsen

July 2, 2006
Soda can cause some discomfort, but I did have a bit of Diet Vanilla Pepsi (Pepsi products are less carbonated) a couple months out, over ice, which helps take out the fizz a bit. The thing is, you need to take heed to your cravings. Head hunger? Maybe. But more likely I think you haven't come off the sugar cravings just yet. They are strong and real and I know them all too well. The concern is that, yes, you will probably be able to have those things down the road, but if you focus on them so intensely you can end up right back where you started. I can tell you that less than a year out I found I could gain weight. Yes, it is that quick. I am no angel and I have found that a little bite of this or that helps, but if it stirs up a sugar demon in you, you need to figure out how to live with that. Work hard on figuring it out now rather than waiting for it to present itself as a major problem down the road. Everyone has a different path, and some can manage with a taste of this or that once in awhile while others trigger major cravings that can do them in. I myself get tired of the mantra "this surgery is not a magic bullet, it's a tool..." but there is truth in that. This surgery will help you with the hardest part - the losing of the weight. But then the other hard part comes in and that is maintaining the loss. Lose as much as you can as quickly as you can and learn ways to deal with those sugar cravings. Hopefully in a month you won't have them. Soda - well, I buck the trend and feel that diet soda isn't a problem. It's when people go back to sugared sodas that I get concerned. Also, as time goes on when you do start trying your limits (it sounds like you will indeed test them), you will find that what makes one person sick may not make you sick, and vice versa. I can eat candy but I cannot eat cake unless it's just a bite. I can eat caramel and chewy things but not chocolate. And cereal...forget it unless it's low carb and the milk is low carb. That makes me sicker than a dog...even a small bowl. Just try not to test these things too early. You will have time to learn how to live a normal life...right now you need to concentrate on losing it the healthiest way possible - and learning how to cope with cravings. I feel like all those years of dieting put a negative spin in my head about never being able to have certain foods ever again. I resist that now because absolute black/white thinking got me into this mess. Relax and enjoy the weight loss ride and work on your strategy! Good luck! Dina
   — Dinka Doo

July 3, 2006
I agree that the craving is probably "head hunger" as your body doen't need soda. There is nothing good for you in soda, anyway - it depletes you bones of calcium and there is nothing of nutritional value in it! I drank enough Diet Coke for three people and you know what? I do not miss it all. I really don't miss paying for it! I also agree that in a few weeks try some sugar free hard candy. Russell Stover makes soem great SF candies....their M&M's (a generic version) are really good. I have a just a few every few days and I am good to go. Just keep this in mind: you were given a gift of WLS that many people are denied. Why wold you throw it away for a sip of soda? Soda could stretch your pouch and slow down your weight loss.
   — Mrs. Crabapple

July 3, 2006
Pooh Bear, well I too had those cravings, and I am only a little over two months PO. I every once in a while have a drink or two of soda. But whoever said that it makes them want water, they are SOOOO right. My body craves water after just a drink of soda. I know I shouldnt drink it, but when i say once in awhile, i am talking about maybe once a week, if not once every two weeks. and i was a soda-aholic. it was bad, but now, just that little taste gets me by for a long time. and i drink a lot of water too, the more water you drink, the less hungry you are, and the faster your cravings go away! i know it may be hard to drink water now, (as i could chug it before wls, and immediatly afterwards i couldnt) but that in time, will get better, i can now drink water faster than i could just out of wls. things get better! steph -41#
   — squeekypete

July 6, 2006
The answer lies in your hands... Lets figure this out... Ask yourself... "WHY DID I HAVE THIS SURGERY?" your answer should be to use it as a tool and not sabotage your results...It is rather normal for you to be thinking about all thsi stuff...It is just that stuff.... You have a choice... Make the right one for what you desire, you are in need of egtting your weight off... you must make a plan and move forward with those goals in line... Take it from someone who has lost the weight gained much weight back and finally found my "why" in my journey... I am very hard headed and no one could tell me what to do...I finally found that special angel to hold my hand and help me down a road I never drept possible..Now the "life Coach I am I love to read these stories... Please stay in touch and remember this "WANT" shall pass... Learn some new habits and stop watching so many tv commercials! They are loaded with junk food adds... This is why amerca is Obese... It is not your fault that you are the way you are, it is society that has molded our minds and taken control of a strong hold! blessings, Celeste from 327 to 125.... Now a figure competitor that has finaly found my "WHY". No I am not a body builder... I just love my healthy lean body... It was my dream...
   — shakeyourweight

July 8, 2006
I was told never to have carbonated beverages. EVER. But my niece had the surgery, and she drinks them. You can have goodies in small portions, eventually, but just be careful not to let yourself get back into the habits that landed you here in the first place. I love milk chocolate, and I have resisted having any, because I know I will crave it if I have it again. I do eat cake at virthday parties, and occasionally eat ice cream. All in small portions, and not too often.
   — Novashannon

July 8, 2006
Eventually and that depends on your body and the advice of your surgeon. I eat sweets only on occasion. I drank Diet Rite soda made w/ Splenda, no sodium, no calories. I drank it flat and only a few sips at a time until my craving was satisfied. I eat chocolate which usually is 2 to 3 hershey kisses followed by water to rinse the sugary taste from my mouth. I don't dump everytime I eat or drink something sweet. The terrible feeling of dumping keeps my in check. I'm 17 months post op so my experience will vastly differ from yours. You are not post op long enough to even think of soda. Give yourself more time to adjust to what your body can tolerate. You will learn by trial and error.
   — CHARLYLVN

July 10, 2006
HMMMM WELL I DIDN'T HAVE THE SURGERY TO GO BACK TO THE HABITS THAT MADE ME OBESE TO BEGIN WITH. MY DOCTOR TOLD ME I GAVE YOU THE TOOL IT IS UP TO YOU TO USE IT.... ITS UP TO YOU DO YOU WANT TO GO BACK AND GET FAT AGAIN OR BE HEALTHY AND THINNER. I HAD MY SURGERY 4/07/05 LOST 103 LBS. FROM 242. WENT FROM A SIZE 18-20 TO A 6-8 AND EATING HEALTHY...GOOD LUCK
   — NYCindy




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