Question:
I'm two months, what will be better with eating at 6 months out?
Eating is such a struggle, sometimes I just want to avoid it and have a protien drink. Will I ever be able to sit down to a meal and feel that I can eat something without fear of discomfort or vomiting? — keya54 (posted on July 1, 2007)
July 1, 2007
YES YOU WILL... Because of hypothyroidism, I had a horrible open wound and
terrible digestive problems for 5 months. I regretted the surgery and was
certain I was going to die. But I made it through and am very thankful I
made the decision now... I did not eat "real" food for a long
time... Chicken... nooo... Softer foods, even more liquid foods are fine...
and they accelerate your weightloss anyeay!!! I highly recommend NOT
spending extra money on "products." First of all, I found
eventually that anything that has additives or preservatives will work
against you. Chicken broth is BEST cooked yourself in a slowcooker with
boneless, skinless chicken breast (Sam's and Costco have very low fat,
ideal and cost effecient breast). You can add pepper for flavor, but don't
salt it, cook it for 6-8 hours, drain the fluid and fat through a strainer
and you will have a low fat, low sodium alternative that are much better
than purchased products. If you don't have the time/energy to cook, use the
store bought low sodium version at Wal-mart or Price Chopper... Really,
preservative filled products will sabatoge you eventually. Best Wishes!
Rachel
— Rachel Propes
July 1, 2007
The short answer, over time.....YES! The long answer - everyone is
different and everyone's body is different. I was OK with food and eating
real food around your mark. I am 4.5 months out now. But there are still
days that I "struggle" with food, with eating. There are days
that food grosses me out and it's the last thing I want to do - stuff my
face with anything. But then I think - it's your health, your life, your
future you are messing with - so eat to be well. Take one day at a time and
things will progressively get easier with time and dedication and will
power.
— jammerz
July 1, 2007
hi,
I am currently 5 weeks out and am now on soft foods. I can tell you I am
having issues with food but force myself to eat something 3 times a day .
It has gotten a little easier but it is a long road. Best of luck
Linda Ocasio
— Alvernlaw
July 1, 2007
I never really had problems with food at all. Only milk intolerance. I am
now just shy of 7 months out and I eat 3-4 oz of meat easily in a whole
wheat/high fiber tortilla or with some softer nonstarchy veggies on the
side. I am down 100lbs from surgery and 148 total with my preop loss.
The eating will get better in time. I your point I had no interest in food
but had no problems eating it. Just wasn't hungry. For me the hunger came
back at 4.5 months out at that point I nixed the shakes b/c I could get it
all through denser proteins and those keep me full and satisfied for hours.
Hope this helps... have a great journey.
— MelissaF
July 1, 2007
I AM 2 MONTHS OUT TODAY ALSO AND FEELING THE SAME WAY YOU ARE. I VOMIT
VERY EASY AND I HAVE BEEN WONDERING IF IT WILL EVER GET EASIER. BUT MY
DOCTOR ASSURES ME THAT WITH TIME, IT WILL GET BETTER. YOU AND I WILL HAVE
TO BOTH BE PATIENT, BEST OF LUCK TO YOU. LET ME KNOW IF THINGS START
WORKING BETTER FOR YOU. I WILL SAY A PRAYER FOR BOTH OF US! VICKYJO
— Vicky Jo Dexter
July 1, 2007
After almost 8 months, I still have my good and bad days with food. I
sometimes feel that it's just easier to have a shake and soft foods than to
bother with experimenting with meat only to have horrible indigestion! I
cannot have anything unless it's very moist and the best meats are filet
mignon with lots of sauce, wendy's chili, moist and tender chicken and veal
and fish. I still eat too fast and pay the price alot. I think it will
take another few months to "figure it all out"!!!!
— Sheri A.
July 1, 2007
I am now a little over 3 months post op and gave up trying to force myself
to eat, especially during the summer when it's toooooo hot to eat, so I
make sure I drink my protein and take my vitamins etc. When it isn't so
hot, I have no problem eating 3 meals a day as should be and getting my
protein in that way. It does get better I promise...I'm already seeing it!
Hang in there and God Bless!
— crystalsno
July 1, 2007
Yes it will get better. You just have to learn the signs. I get a heavy
feeling in my chest first, then actual pain in my chest, then I cut a
sweat, and start salavating. Then it is off to the races. So....if I quit
eating when I feel the heavy feeling I stop the domino effect and don't
have to get to the vomiting. I am so much better off. However, I am not
satisfied and am hungry and malnurished so after the heavy chest feeling
has gone and I feel it is safe to take in more nutrition that is when the
protein drink comes in to play and just whatever I think I need to make up
for not eating enough at meal time and whatever I think I need to satisfy
the hunger. So....listen to your body. It will give you warning signals.
They may not be the same as mine but they are their. Remember to chew
everything well. The rule is 30 chews but I never can get past 25 before my
food is pulverized and going down especially since I take care to take very
small bites to start with. Hang in there. Good Luck and God Bless, Norma
— njkbutton
July 1, 2007
Enjoy the 'honeymoon' period while it is there. Typically that's about 6
months. After that you will feel hungrier. The 'dumping syndrome' will
diminish but, according to my surgeon, it will never go away totally. (I'm
asuming you have had RNY). I'm almost 1 year out, and I still have an
occasional 'dump'. I like that though because it keeps me on the straight
and narrow by eating to avoid 'dumping'.
— [Deactivated Member]
July 1, 2007
Hi Susan, wow I can't believe the number of responses you got! That is
amazing how this website works. Eating is a huge struggle, and I just want
to insert something here, in case it wasn't covered. If you are having a
lot of discomfort and / or vomiting after eating, I think you need to call
your surgeon. If you are not eating too much food, then you may be having
a stricture problem with your pouch. You are right in that you can only
eat little, and the struggle to eat little because we want more is there.
Some people actually use the protein drink for quite some time and enjoy
those benefits, and it is easier for them. If it suits you and you can
digest the drinks better, then it isn't a bad idea. However, if food is
making you "ill", I think you need to discuss this with your
surgeon. Surgery is a tough way to lose weight. It is a great tool, but
no one ever said it is easy (atleast not to me). The head issues with
losing weight are worse than the physical issues of drinks and eating small
amounts. It is a fight, even for some, the fight of their life. You are
worth it though and I encourage you to fight the battle. Take care, and I
hope things work out for you. Patricia P.
— Patricia P
July 4, 2007
Yes, it will get better. It took me almost two years to be able to say
that. Everyone is different. I still have days when I have trouble
eating.
— Novashannon
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