Question:
Freaking Out ,So Scared ready to cxl, All these Q & A are scary
I read these q's and a's daily, lot of complications , my surgery was already cxl'd once because I had infection, now its scheduled for Feb 10, Im really scared , Im not one for Hospitals, let alone bypass surgery, Im, losing weight Pretty good around 2 lbs weekly so far 35 lbs .. I afraid of the aftercare and the strict regiment to follow? — barry l. (posted on January 22, 2010)
January 22, 2010
Don't be scared. It is major surgery and this surgery was my first ever.
I had never been in the hospital before. I'm not gonna tell you that it
was easy, but it wasn't nearly as hard as I thought it would be. And after
the surgery following the "diet" wasn't hard for me either. I
just had to learn to "think" with my stomach instead of my head
as far as eating goes. You have done good with your weight loss so far!
Keep up the good work and you'll do GREAT after surgery too!
— Melissa D.
January 22, 2010
Barry, don't be afraid. I'm glad to hear your losing weight I think that's
great. But, I think we've all been there. You lose weight and then yoyo and
gain it back and some. This surgery has really changed that for me. I can
honestly say I have a diffent relationship with food now. I had my surgery
6/16/09 and I've lost 93 lbs. I feel and look great. I have learned most
importantly to eat in moderation. Something I never did cause I felt
hungry. I wish you success no matter what you decide to do. But, don't let
fear hold you back. This surgery can give you your life back.
Donna
— donnaholman
January 22, 2010
Barry. Glad to see that you are doing so well on your own already. That
tells me that you are already motivated. I just had Lap Band 3 days ago.
I also started losing weight just before-I guess because I hadn't 'given up
anymore.' I knew that there was a 'way out' of the body and mind I've been
living in. I am now down 22lbs from the first visit with my surgeon on
11/9/09. Keep up the good work and look forward to the exciting future.
It may be hard and difficult, but it can't be as hard and difficult as
living in the current body. Good luck. So many people have done it, and
so many people are happy. Think positive, and thank god that there is
something out there that 'actually works.'
— Babybuff
January 22, 2010
Yep....same here.....we all were. BUT YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT CAN FREAK
YOURSELF OUT! Not anyone on these boards.
Each and every one of us are at different stages and has had different
surgeries and have different troubles. So.....Relax!
It is like the newspaper...You have been following and reading the Q and A
Forums...not the,
Hey!!!!! I'M DOING GREAT GUYS!!!! board.
Thousands have had little to no troubles. But I will tell you this
much..... If you keep telling yourself you will fail......you will. Or your
gonna puke.....you will, etc........ So, relax, keep up the great pre-op
wt. loss,and start your new life off with a great POSITIVE attitude. You
will come home and start this journey going....Pfffff.....this will be
great!!!!
— 1stReneeMarie
January 22, 2010
It is sooooooo normal to freak out! But don't let others' experiences on
this board scare you, most people write in with concerns, so you don't hear
of the great things about it as much. This surgery has already changed my
life, and I'm only 6 weeks out!!! I thought it would take months or a year
or 2 to feel better but I felt better immediately! I think the freaking
out is because of the unknown for your body, but I have yet to meet anyone
that regretted having RNY, you will do terrific!
— eyeflirt4fun
January 23, 2010
First off let me say I agree with all that's been said so far. Secondly,
congrats on your success and also for the determination and belief in
yourself to do this. The hardest part for me was allowing myself to
believe that I'm worth this and matter enough to follow the rules and
reclaim my life for me. Take one day at a time...if that's too much, take
a minute at a time. You are not alone in your stuggle, fears or concerns.
We are all here with you. Good luck and best wishes!
— kchooker
January 23, 2010
ITS A PERSONAL DECISION, BT IF YOU HAVE MORE THAN 125 LBS OR MORE TO
LOSE...IT IS THE MIRACLE TO GET YOUR LIFE BACK. FEEL FREE TO CALL ME AND I
WOULD BE GLAD TO TALK TO YOU. KAREN 904-314-3380.
— Karen D.
January 23, 2010
Barry, I agree these boards can be quite alarming and scary. I avoided them
before my surgery. Just remember we are all different, surgeons are
different/ they offer different programs, etc. If your doctors and surgeon
feel that you fall within the requiredments for WLS, then they truly
believe that your benefits out weigh your risks. Be confident in both
yourself and your surgeon, and follow all their instructions. I am two
months post- op this Monday, and I had similar fears, I feel very good. I
am very happy with my decision. Best to you!
— [Deactivated Member]
January 23, 2010
Barry, I agree these boards can be quite alarming and scary. I avoided them
before my surgery. Just remember we are all different, surgeons are
different/ they offer different programs, etc. If your doctors and surgeon
feel that you fall within the requiredments for WLS, then they truly
believe that your benefits out weigh your risks. Be confident in both
yourself and your surgeon, and follow all their instructions. I am two
months post- op this Monday, and I had similar fears, I feel very good. I
am very happy with my decision. Best to you!
— [Deactivated Member]
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