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   — Lisa T. (posted on June 26, 2007)


June 26, 2007
You will be fine! Just follow the doctors orders and as soon as you can WALK WALK WALK! You will have a great deal of gas you have to get rid of and it's painful, but within about 30 seconds of getting up and walking the pain will be gone for about an hour and it starts all over again. The walking not only helps get rid of the gas, it helps you heal faster. Remember, the surgeon's doing this surgery have been doing it for at the VERY minimum of about 3 yrs, so they know what they are doing and what to look out for etc. After I got rid of the gas, I didn't have any pain. The more you can walk the less pain you will experience. Good luck and see you on the losing side! God Bless!
   — crystalsno

June 26, 2007
Hi Lisa, Easy for me to say relax as I am not able to have surg for 1 yr but, try. My friend had her surg in April and did just fine. Her Dr. was there for her as well as the hospital staff. She and several other ladies had theres done and I had the pleasure of spending the day with all the families. All were nervous and ALL did just fine. I saw several of the ladies up and walking hours after surg. Be positve and you will do just fine! I will keep you in my prayers Lisa. Julie
   — tootsie52

June 26, 2007
Have faith in GOd and the Doctor. It is perfectly normal to be afraid. Go take you a long hot soak in the tub, dim the lights , light a candle, get some calming music, sink in the tub and talk to God that is all prayer is talking. Spend some quite time with him. Know everything is in God's hand and you need not worry he loves to do the worrying for us. Email us when you get home!!!
   — DonnaB.

June 26, 2007
Lisa I am 4 weeks post-op. I was nervous until the day of the surgery. I was amazingly calm that day. I kept thinking, '3 weeks and no work!'. Remember that it is a new chapter in your life, all for the better. You will be fine and remember to immediately start off on the right foot with vitamins and protein everyday. Good luck. You are off to a new beginning!
   — BarettaGal

June 26, 2007
Lisa I am 4 weeks post-op. I was nervous until the day of the surgery. I was amazingly calm that day. I kept thinking, '3 weeks and no work!'. Remember that it is a new chapter in your life, all for the better. You will be fine and remember to immediately start off on the right foot with vitamins and protein everyday. Good luck. You are off to a new beginning!
   — BarettaGal

June 26, 2007
Lisa, Dont' worry...everything will be okay. It's normal to be afraid but ask God to give you peace...and he will do just that. I was the very same way. I am now a little over 3 months post-op and I was so excited until the day before surgery. On that day I begin to ask myself, "what in the world are you about to do". I had all sorts of things going on inside of me...I was excited, nervous and fearful all at once. So I begin to pray. The morning of the surgery I woke up, took my shower and on my way to Ocala, FL I went (I had my surgery done in Ocala). All of the emotions that I experienced the day before were gone. God had given me the peace that I asked for. Just think of tomorrow as being the first day of the rest of your life. You will be fine !! Remember to walk as much as you can; as soon as you can. Walking will help relieve the gas and help with the healing process. Follow your doctor's orders and call him or his staff whenever you have any questions. GOOD LUCK !!!!
   — AngelaC.

June 26, 2007
:) Lisa, it's normal to be nervous, but you will be fine. I was also very worries, but once you go into the room and see your Doc, you will feel good knowing that you picks him or her because you have faith in them. I am now 1 yr and 8 months. I feel great, and you will also.One day at a time my friend.. And then you will be laughing about what you wrote today. All the best to you..As you now start on the road to your new life.
   — Carol Giusto

June 26, 2007
well of course youre afraid! there'd be something wrong with you if you were relaxed about it....i was terrified but now that i'd gotten it done i am SO HAPPY i did it! youre just nervous because youre making a big change in your life and lifestyle but it's for the better! just remember more and more people are having this done without a hitch so just enjoy youre new liberation from food! EAT TO LIVE...NOT LIVE TO EAT good luck!
   — lizzie42

June 26, 2007
It may be psychological also. You are about to "break-up" with your best friend known as "food". It is a psychological adjustment but remember there are great benefits. Physically, everyone is different. I had alot of shoulder pain and other pains but like every one says, just start walking. Within a few days most all aches and pains were gone. You will be in great hands!
   — rlabaw

June 26, 2007
Best Wishes Lisa, You are going to be alright! We have all had the same fear! Good luck, welcome to the loser bench.. Keep us posted! Hugs, Judy R
   — ozlady1000

June 26, 2007
You'll be fine. There'll be drugs to help with the pain; however, you'll sleep most of the day. You'll experience soreness; however, I didn't experience excruciating pain -- good surgeon.
   — the7thdean

June 26, 2007
DEAR LISA, RELAX, TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND KNOW THIS THAT WHILE YOU ARE DOING WHAT YOU FEEL YOU NEED TO DO TO IMPROVE YOUR HEALTH; HE THAT KEEPETH ISRAEL NEITHER SLUMBERS NOR SLEEPS SO THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY SHALL BE WITH YOU AND HE WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU NOR FORSAKE YOU!!! I AM HAVING MY SURGERY ON JULY 11, 2007 SO I AM QUITE CONFIDENT IN WHOM I DEPEND, AND I BELIEVE EVERY WORD OF GOD IS TRUE. MY PRAYERS SHALL BE WITH YOU LISA AS YOU PRESS ONWARD, I WISH YOU EVERY SUCCESS WITH YOUR SURGERY AND YOUR FUTURE LIFE AND MUCH IMPROVED HEALTH, I WILL BELIEVE WITH YOU THAT THIS WILL BE A MAJOR TURNING POINT IN YOUR LIFE AND THAT YOU ARE ALREADY A WINNER AND SHALL BE VICTORIOUS IN YOUR BARIATRIC RESULTS!!! MAY THE LORD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU ETERNALLY!!! ABIDING WITH PEACE, REV. LEVI
   — [Deactivated Member]

June 27, 2007
I listened to Bariatric surgeon last night and there were about 45 peole in the room who had had the surgery. I asked the same question. The docotr who had done over 100 Roux En Y's said It is not a painfull surgery, so the smartas- in me came out and I asked the crowd. Not one of them said it was painfull. Several said the only thing they had was a tiredness and the small incisions were a little sore..............Lord, that seems easier to me then a sigmoidectomy or mamogram. Put those fear to rest, if it didn't freak out all those people, rlax and let it happen, Sometimes a little fear is a healthy thing, but not to excess. This operation has less then 1 % complications, your chances of walking across the kitchen floor and falling and breaking something are greater then that. Good Luck
   — bderuiter

June 27, 2007
I had mixed emotions the day before, too! It is SO normal to second guess one minute, be excited the next, freaked out the next. You will run the full gammit of emotions. I cried right before they wheeled me off to the operating room. The nurse asked if I was OK and I was....finally the tears of joy came knowing when I woke up - my life would be different and things would be changing for the better. You will be fine!! Relax and enjoy the experience....before you know it...it's over and you are like - that happened years ago...and it's only been 4 months.
   — jammerz




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