Question:
in the last stage of pre op expect a date next week now Im really scared whats up?

   — [Deactivated Member] (posted on September 3, 2007)

September 3, 2007
Hi Angela! I just got my surgery date, and I understand your fears! For me, while I went through the motions, I never really expected deep down that I would be approved, then when it happens, I Had to face the fact that I really AM "obese", and it was time to take control of my life, and my eating habits! I am an emotional/bordom eater, and that will have to change to be successful. I think that is scarier than the surgery itself! I sat down and looked at all the pictures of myself that I have hated because of how I looked, then grabbed a piece of paper and wrote down all the health benifits I'll gain, and a list of everything I'll be able to do after surgery that I can't do now. I take it out and look at it when the nerves hit me, and I get excited instead of fearful! Spend some time soul searching why YOU wanted to start this process in the first place, and see if continuing on is worth conquering YOUR fears. I wish you the very best of luck! My surgery date is Sept. 11th, and I can hardly wait:) hugs, charlotte
   — Charlotte C.

September 3, 2007
Hi Angela, I had my surgery Aug. 23 and I do not regret my decision one bit. My biggest fear was when I entered surgery. I started to cry because I was afraid. The surgeons and nurses all told me this was normal. Your fear is normal. Why shouldn't you question your decision and of course we always fear the worst. Statistics show that this type of surgery is very successful. Go ahead and feel your fear and then move on. Think about the life ahead of you. You are normal we all went through this. Take care and breath.....
   — mariamahoa

September 3, 2007
It's like before you get married, you have the jitters, wondering if it is the best move. This is exactly the same.........Is it really what I want? You bet it is. Your health will be better. The latest studies say it will prolong your life. What's not to want. I am post op 1 month tomorrow and I have never looked back since I was released from the hospital.
   — bderuiter

September 3, 2007
Angela.... expect an emotional roller coaster. As ready for surgery as I thought I was (6 months education, etc.) I still went through all of the emotions. Sad. Happy. Upbeat. Down. Anxious. Out of control. In control. Could cry at the drop of a hat. Mad. Angry. Excited. Ready to change my life. Scared to death to change my life. It's normal. Just take one day at a time. Take one hour or minute at a time if need be. Just remember and keep your eye on the ball - the prize is a whole new you, a better you, a healthier you and that my friend is the prize. It's all good.....just keep your eye on the prize. Take a day at a time and just keep your eye on the prize. Good luck.
   — jammerz

September 3, 2007
Hi Angela, My op is on the 13th of Sept, and like you I too am VERY scared......! I suppose this is all 'normal' eh! Btw which op are you having? loves, Madhvi
   — madhvi

September 3, 2007
Hey Angela- I was second guessing myself prior to durgery and was afraid as well. I had the VBG on 8/17/07. I just kept in my head that by the time Christmas comes, I will be a significantly different person. I was thinking about food as my drug of choice. I had enough and the craziness has to be done. 8/17 is my new birthday...a new life and a new me! You will still feel the fear but, keep those positive thoughts and always keep the major reasons in your head on WHY you are doing this! Good luck to you and God bless...I know you will be fine and definetly not regret your decision afterward...xoxox Maria
   — MariaRN

September 4, 2007
Hi there You have made a big decision to take control of your life it's normal to be scared. My surgery was Oct 24, 2006 and is was worth it but a scary step in my life. Put it in Gods' s hands and he will guide you Good Luck
   — colon0921

September 4, 2007
Hey Angela. I want to give you props for being scared. I had my pre-op appointment today and was so scared. (My surgery is next tuesday.) So, you go girl. Be strong, keep going, I will, and I will know it's all worth it! Best of luck!
   — Jennifer C.