How do I help my supportive hubby be realistic!

My husband is a terrific guy and is very supportive, but he's also the type of guy that thinks nothing bad ever happens then when it does, he completely loses it. I'm worried about how he'll be when he sees me after surgery, with all the tubes, etc. hanging out of me. He's never personally had to deal with something like this. Any suggestions?

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