HELP ME!! What is the matter with me?!?!

I had surgery Oct 29th. I went for my one week check up yesterday and I have lost 16lbs...my thoughts on that, SO WHAT!! I don't care! I am so unsure I did the right thing. I feel aweful! I think I have energy then I go to the store with my husband and I can't even walk around for an hour without getting tired! I can't pick anything up! When I am thirsty I can't drink until I am not! I worry that I wont live a normal life EVER again! Will I be able to pick up my children and play with them? Will I every be able to eat normally? Is my life ever gonna me good again? I HATE being tired and helpless...I don't know what to do. I know it takes time to heal that is not it...I see people at my support group meetings and they all look tired even people who are a couple years post-op!! HELP ME!!PLEASE!!What is wrong with me?

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