Why are some people so judgemental after reading only a few sentences.....

Recently, I posted a question about having an affair. I really appreciate ALL the comments because that is what I asked for, however some of us can be so judgemental of others. I am not vain or stuck on myself, actually I am quite the opposite. I asked that question for my WLS because we have something in common, I expected to hear comments like FRAN'S from the general public. When I say an affair is coming it is because my DH (damn) will not take me serious when I say I want out. I am not leaving someone who has been by my side when I was fat, just because he was there does not mean he was REALLY there! At one time I think I was settling but now I don't have to have a man to be a whole woman. Hell, I work now and I will work after he is gone. As far as my kids are concerned, they have been in my home with me and they know what I have gone through. I am not going to tell my life history for hundreds to read, but just understand this is well thought out and the man's time has ran out. And is is vain to say that my body still looks okay after 4 kids and a 15 year marriage? And yes, I have a pretty face but I always have been told that. And one last tid bit I married at 16 and he was 17---so now what do you have to say FRAN and others like you. But still, I really appreciate all of the comments and feel free to email me for a more detailed conversation. I will post pictures when I learn how and I love this website!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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