This is kind of a raw question

My husband and I are both planning on having wls, me before him. When I met him, I weighed 211# and he weighed about 260#. Over the past 11 years we have each gained about 60#. Both of us have diabetes and because of this desease, my husband is impotent( he was impotent when I met him). Sex was never a big part of our marriage. We have not been intimate for the better part of a year. My question is, Because I am MO, I have alot of extra fat in the genital area and I know this it will be taken care of either by weighloss or surgery. My husband, on the other hand, how do I say this, is small. I don't know if he is that way because he too is MO or God just made him that way or could it be that he is fatty in that area too. I would never ask him if he was ever bigger when he was smaller. Will he have to have plastic surgery on his private area too? Thanks, Claire

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