Why is my once supportive sister being negative now that I am approved?

She has never really been for the surgery but she has supported my decision to have it done, but now that I actally have an approval, she has been negative like, what if you get cancer you will have no fat to fight with, and telling my children that I will never be able to buy them anything again because I will have to be buying me new clothes all the time, and that I may as well get a divorce now because she knows I won't be happy with my heavy husband when I am thinner, stuff like that. It really hurts my feelings, she is my best friend other than my husband. She is morbidly obese also so she should understand totally. What do you think?

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