Still a virgin by chioce at 32 years old

I'm a born again Christian who is waiting for marriage. It has not been easy but, I've never really been serious with a guy. I always thought it was my "strong" morals but now I'm scared it was my weight keeping me safe. I've been told by many people how pretty I am even at 300 plus lbs. Whats going to happen after my surgery and the weight starts coming off? It sounds so stupid but I'm afraid of the attention I'll be getting from the other sex. On the flip side it's really going to piss me off when people who would NOT even give me the time of day start treating me like a real person. Do I need to find a head shrinker or is it all part of the healing process. My favorite saying is "God is bigger than the Boogieman" but now before my surgery I'm even even bigger than the Boogieman. Anyone going through the same stuff? And yes even when there is less I'm still waiting.

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