Husband issues

Since I told my husband I'm having surgery he has taken liberty to begin calling me fat and uses it often..It's like he has opened all the flood gates about how he feels about me. He told me a few years ago, I was an embaressment to him. I try to keep my cool, I have a 12 year old daughter and we have been married 20 years. He also has been very good husband, but his mouth and his words are getting to me. I have left my husband 10 years ago because of this. I came back soon after than and we have had a decent marriage since then. He is supportive of the surgery, mainly because I won't embaress him. I don't care about embaressment I care about my health and my daughter. Thanks for listening.

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