Changes--Please can anyone help me. I'm having surgery in April and getting very scared of

losing my weight and having to deal with people. I've made a life of staying behind my size. I feel like I will go wild or something. Does anyone else think like this or am I crazy. How do I learn how to act? 40 and never even had a date.

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