What to tell my father?

I am 31 years old and am in the process of trying to arrange WLS. For years my dad has been on my case about losing weight. When I was pregnant and had gestational diabetes he said it was because of my size, when I couldnt get Pregnant PCOS he said it was my size, lately I have been having severe pain in my abdomen and they can't find anything wrong and once again my dad says it from my weight. It isn;t that I dont agree, but he thinks that it should be easy losing weight you just dont eat poorly. I am married with one daughter I am 5 foot 9" and weigh about 255, why should I care but I do I just dont know what to tell him about the surgery or even if I should. because of the speed of weight loss he is bound to fugure it out. Has anyone else had this problem?

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