Has anyone been shy about too much attention?

In 1999 I lost 75 pounds and was looking pretty good if I do say so myself, I recieved a lot, and I do mean alot of attention from men that I really wasn't used to and found myself very shy talking to them. I was constantly stopped on the street, became the center of attention at work, when I asked them why they never talk to me before, most of them said that they never noticed me or that they thought I was married(stupid ass excuses).Now that I am going to have my surgery at the end of May, I am not sure on how to handle all the attention I will get since I will be losing much more. One of the reason I gain all of the weight back was because of the insecurtiy, and the anger that these men didn't like me for me. What can I do to get ready for this?

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