Obese spouse negative on surgery

My wife, whom I love very, very much was supportive up until I got my approval and surgery date. Then she became very upset and found every reason why it couldn't be done now. Five years ago it was because she was going back to get her masters degree and she wouldn't have time to help me. I'm wondering if because she is slightly obese that she is afraid of my becoming slim and some how not wanting to be with her. No chance of that ever happening after 21 years of marriage. But she is somewhat insecure. I finally told her, as I did when we started the process, that unless we were in agreement on the surgery, I would not have it. So today I will be cancelling my surgery.

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