Is this a unique situation?

I am the primary caregiver for my mom, and she's had 3 hospital stays in the past 6 weeks. She's home now and is so supportive of my upcoming surgery. My surgery is scheduled for 11 days from now, and while my brother is flying in from out of state to look after mom while I'm recovering, I feel so guilty/anxious. I've had morning panics the past couple of mornings. I feel like I'm being selfish by going ahead with this while mom's health is so precarious; however I keep telling myself that after having this surgery, I'll be better able both physically and emotionally to care for her. I'd love advice from ANYONE!

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