A few months ago my husband told me that he was not attracted to me b/c of my weight.

I have always been overweight and always fighting it. Well a few months after having our daughter my husband said that he was not attracted to me b/c of weight. He said he feels that I don't try hard enough. (Of course I do). Well now that I have told him that I plan on having the WLS he is acting different. Alot more attentive, etc.. It makes me feel like he is working to keep the future (& hopefully thinner) me. He is a thin guy, and until we had THE TALK I always thought he was ok w/ my weight. He is a good guy but I am really hurt and confused. Has anyone else had this problem?

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