Just told husband about consult appointment & he's mad I didn't include him earlier

He says I already have my mind made up, but it's not. My initial consult is in 3 days & I will take whatever advice my surgeon has--to go ahead with the surgery or not. My husband thinks that this is the "easy" way out & that I should just "buck up" and exercise and eat right now--without surgery. I tried to tell him that I've been there, done that, I have done my research and I think this is what I want to do, but he's not supportive. What can I do?

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