Since Having had WLS, has anyone lost the desire to have Sex ?

Personal Question, But figured we're all in this together "WLS speaking" Hi there I'm 14 months post op open RYN, have lost about 130 pounds and with that have also lost my sexual desire..... go figure, I used to enjoy it pre-op, but now being post op I just don't have the desire for it at all . My poor husband is dying here.......putting up with me and my lack of.......... I think it might be the lack of spontinatiey, having to use condoms. as we really have no desire to have children at any time, how-ever we have to be extra carefull. My main questions are: Post ops do you have the same issues with sex ? and also what birth-control methods can I use besides the pill and condoms, as the pills make me feel pregnate... as I vomit and feel nauses,when I take them. The condoms, well zilch spontinatey.... There's really got to be something out there that can help me out...... I was even thinking of getting my tubes tied or the husband fixed......... something . Also could there be any medication that I could take to enhance my desire ?

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