are we doomed?

i see so many posts about saggy skin and all, i am just wondering if i get this surgery if i am doomed to a horrible looking body with drapes of sagging skin? i have seen some pictures that are, quite frankly, very discouraging, even though the weight loss and subsequent health improvements are well worth it. i have had 2 plastic surgeries already and don't look forward to more especially after an open rny, which is all my surgeon will do on me. and if any of you have decided to live with the skin problems, how has your spouse dealt with it? mine is not very forgiving if anything seems yukky or gross. for heaven's sake, he is 42 and still doesn't know the difference between a tampon and a sanitary napkin! thanks for listening! darci

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