Has anyone had family member not speak to you because of WLS?

Me and my sister have always been extra close. My sister was sopose to stay with me at the hospital when i had my surgery. She didnt come for my surgery. My husband had to take off work to stay with me which we couldnt afford him taking off. We had already plan on my sister staying with me and helping me out for a while with my little girl. She stays at home and her husband works. He dont have insurance so she couldnt have this surgery. She wanted and needs it bad. When it got closer to me having surgery she wouldnt even talk to me. She said she has never been jelous of me but she is now and that she needs to be with her husband. She wont talk to me. She didnt even call to see how my surgery went. She has hurt me so much. I dont understand it because we have always been close and always been there for one another. Why is she not happy for me? I went to see her and she wouldnt even open her door and told me to leave. My little girl and her little girl were in tears because they have growed up like sister and they dont understand why they cant see each other. Her little girl was screaming she wanted to see her sissy (thats what she calls my little girl). I dont know what i can do. Does she not understand i done this where i could keep on living. Does anyone know of anything i can do? Please give me some advise because my heart is broken.

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