Spouse does not agree with my choice of doctors.

I am currently having a problem with my husband. He does not think I should go to the doctor that I have choosen. Last year I was approved for GBS at Bariatric Treatment Centers, Wylie Texas. We went for my consultation and he liked the doctor and staff at BTC. We both left the office excited about the possibility of me having GBS. My husband later changed his mind. He said BTC was to far for us to travel for me to have surgery, we live in San Antonio, which is about 6 hours away. I have tried to find a doctor in San Antonio that accepts my insurance, but there is only one. And his soonest appointment for surgery is in 2005. I have recently decided that I want to have GBS at Bartiatric Treatment Centers. Since my husband does not agree with my decission, we are not getting along. My question is, What should I do? How do I explain to my husband that this is the right thing to do? or Am I wrong for not feeling the same way as him? Should I just forget about having my surgery at BTC? Can someone please try to give me some answers? I do not know what to do. I love my husband and do not want him upset with me. Please help!

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