~Just Wondering~

Hi All, Well I need to get all this out, and well Most of it is what we all have felt once or twice in our life.When do we decide to give up...I Am a very aggressive woman by nature, and I really dont like someone telling what I can and cannot do. Especially after I Feel I have paid my "dues" In life. I work hard, try to be a good human being, and pay taxes, have insurance, and even buckle up *Smiles*. After dealing with insurance companies, doctors, and lawyers that dont seem to care, im wondering to myself, ok when do I give up. I was so angry today when i called my insurance company to find out where the appeal I sent 4 weeks ago was. They said they hadnt been able to find it, and the operator(Nellie)was so cold and rude, Told me that I should look in my policy that the exclusion was there, and I was wasting my time and theirs. I was so mad, I Asked to talk to the supervisor who tried to calm me down. He said he would try to find out about my appeal, but also told me that I really should be using the appeal process to tie up the insurance, that they stand behind the exclusion and do not make changes, and i was basically wasting my time. Oh boy, by the time I Got off the phone all I did was cry. I was so mad, so hurt, and So well Didnt know what to do. So I called a lawyer who I Am meeting with to help me try to determine at this point where I should go and what I should do. I have to fight my PCP for a letter, and a recommendation, Ive had to argue with the surgeon cuz it seemd to me at the time that they were ignoring me after I Got denied the first time..I Feel like all im doing is fighting, and yet every time I think I Should just walk away and "Settle For being this way", I Get mad and write another letter to a public official. And yet in the back of my mind I wonder..What good Can I Really DO??? Does one person really make a difference...*Sigh* Im sorry for going on and on, but I Really am at my wits end now..I Just want to scream, and ask why NO one cares If I Live or die...Just wanted someone to know how i felt if you were feeling the same way too........

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