New boyfriend pre-op, worried about post-op emotions.

I recently rekindled a romance with someone I dated 5 years ago. At the time, I was 31 and really wanted kids, but we broke up because he was a bit older than me and already had 3 kids. We have now rekindled our romance and its been very romantic and loving. I have spent the last 3 years without a boyfriend due to fat girl low self esteem. All of a sudden he is back in my life and things have been great. He is supportive of my surgery (April 11th) but totally accepts me the way I am. My question/concern is that once I lose the weight I know my confidence level will be up and I am worried about my eyes wondering. I am not 36 and still dont have any kids and he still does not want anymore. I am still on the fence about this as I am not getting any younger. But I feel bad about the thought that once I get "thin" that I might to start to look for someone else. I am worried about the person I MIGHT become and maybe neither one of us will like the new "me". Has anyone else had these thoughts or experiences? Thank you.

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