I will be seperated soon should I leave before or after sugery?

My wife has said that she will not support me and will leave if I decide to "screw myself up for the rest of my life." I have decided to go ahead with WLS and I don't know if it will be easier to leave her before or wait and see if she stays(I really don't think she will.) I have been divorced before and I am too chicken to leave because of what my friends and family will say. Our marriage has always been on rocky grounds, and it will most likely just get worse after WLS. I don't want to be left when I am recovering, and unable to support myself. Has anyone been through this (knowing that their marriage is ending) at the same time as their WLS? Any suggestions to make this seperation easier? Any comments will be appreciated!

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