Having problems with my husband

This is hard for me to put in words, but i will try. I have been with my husband for almost 10 years and have been married for 3. He is 13 years older than me and at the age of 31 now i'm not happy. Not sure if this is because of the ups and downs due to the surgery or not. He really has not been there for me. I feel like i'm lieing to everyone including myself. I'm the smallest i have been since high school and very happy about that. He does say nice things sometimes about how i look, but it is not enough. I'm at the point where i think that the weight was a bigger issue in regards to hold on to him. But now that the weight is coming off i'm thinking i deserve something more and better. Is this normal has this happened to anyone else. Thanks everyone.Sarah

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