CAN ANYONE HELP ME ?

I met with my surgeron yesterday and it was very disappointing. I wanted to get my surgery date but the psychologist had concerns about depression and lack of family support. So now I have to see another pscy. I feel disspointed and angry. The psychologist asked me about my family. I am not married. I have one sister who lives in another state and my mother lives with her and I have no immediate family in Calfornia. But that doesn't make me a poor candidate for surgery. I have a strong network of close friends that I see and/or talk to on a daily basis, all of which have encouraged me tremendously. He did not not even ask me about my freinds. He asked if was married or have I ever been married. But the majority of our conservation was on why I would not pay him up front because my insurance would never approve me for surgery. I called persistently and got the approval in less than 48 hours. But now I regret not paying him. I feel that if I had paid him up front my eval would have been different. I say this because I spoke with other patients who had seen him recently. They all were married and paid him up front. I may be wrong but I am ready to have the surgery. I know it is not a magic pill put just a tool to assist me in accomplishing my goal. I want my body back and I want it back to stay I am sick a tired of it and think the anyone considering the procedure tells this way in varying degrees. I am angry but I know it is just one more of many hurdles that I have to overcome. Please give me some feedback I just feel this is not right.

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