My husband harldy has sex with me because of my weight

Ok I have a personal issue I have dealing with it and its kindof embarrasing and need some help. I have gained 100 pounds since my husband and I got together but its been over a course of 15 years. We meet in high school when I was athletic and small HOWEVER he has always been on the big side. Throughout the years he has gained a little but now we hardly ever have intercourse. We have a good relationship except when this is brought up. He tells me it has nothing to do with me but that since we are both big its alot harder??? I think he is being self-centered you know? I am doing this surgery for ME and MY HEALTH but I dont know how I will feel if AFTER the surgery he than cant keep his hands off me like before if that happens. Because it really hurts me...Anyone deal with something like this?

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