Is this normal????? A little scared today....

I don't know what I feel today. I am happy there is no heart issue to hold me back. I am still anxious for the surgery so I can start my new life! I guess I am a little anxious and scared at the same time. I don't want to fail when I finally get the tool I need to help me. But one person close to me had the lap band and she admittedly does not do what she is supposed to do and has only lost about 30lbs in about a year and a half. One person I work with had the lap rny over 3 years ago and has lost alot of weight but she grazes all day and does not and did not exercise the way she was supposed to. So she has not lost what she thought she would and has alot of body issues. I have watched all this for over a year now and even though I say I have learned from watching them and I really want to succeed what if I end up like them and slip back into old habits? I don't want to put myself through this and then fail! I want so badly to be healthy and be able to do the things I use to. Is it normal to feel this way? I don't know......

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