Has anyone's spouse flippped out before WLS....

I don't know what to do, my husband has never said that I could not have the surgery and I wouldn't say he has been supportive, but now things have changed he's making comments about what I can wear and what I can't, where I can go, etc. I am a big girl, but when I was 200lbs I was had a shape for a full-figured girl. Underneath all of this extra baggage lies a small waist, and just right hips, and well....I'll have to redo the breast--LOL How do I keep up my self-esteem after WLS when he'll be fighting me all the way (he's insecure with me this heavy, what is he going to do with me at 135-140) HELP ME!!!!!!

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