Has the idea of a single's or personal board ever came up?:)

Hi all! I was just wondering if I was the only one who thought it might be neat to have a "meeting place" for singles here? I use to go to the BBW sites, but you go there, and everybody there wants you to STAY fat. You go to other sites, and your too fat for now. And while guys are looking these days I find myself too paranoid to look back. Come on, though I look not so bad with my clothes on, I'd scare them off if they knew what lies beneath.:) On this site at least everybody knows whats going on, what to expect, etc. No unpleasant surprises! I plan on getting reconstructive surgery this spring, if insurance provides, but for now my thighs are horrendous, breast, yuk, and so is the rest of my body. Don't get me wrong, I thank God for this awesome life changing surgery every day. And my self esteem for the most part has gone way, way up. I feel human these days. But I feel like if I went out with a guy and actually started a relationship with him someday, then he'd freak out. If I tell them before hand that makes you sound awful, especially when they don't understandd. I have a couple of guys who flirt with me now and I know that they are getting mixed signals from me. I'm AFRAID to go out with them. Its not like I'm gonna hop into bed with them, but who knows what the future holds. I haven't had a date since my almost 5 year old son was an infant, and unless I stop being so uptight about things, I don't see things changing! I'd love to hear some advice, thoughts, or just another "yeah, I feel that way too!" comment. Bye, Christy

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