My husbands say's he'll still buy sweets!

I know it sounds silly but, I've got only 4 days till Surgery and my husband said today that he and the kids (who are all thin) will continue to buy groceries the same as he always has, chips, candy, soda, cookies, and will not stop buying desserts for the family, which is an after-dinner ritual! I've gained 130lbs. in our 5 years of marriage and he knows I can't go on like this. He's not against me having the Surgery, he just doesn't want it to affect his life at all! My husbands not a jerk, he's just set in his way's. Please, has anyone had a lack-of-support husband and still was able to have the will power to be a loser!!

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