The responses below are in reponse to a question asked on the Q&A board by Nicole C. I just wanted to clear this up before the hate mail starts after reading my surgery page. I am not a mean person and said what I said to her out of honesty and the hopes of assiting and answering her question. You people can be really irrational at times, so I am just keeping you all updated on what happened. If the email would have been read thourhly she would have seen I was not being mean, but honest. Take care.
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Question:
If I get this surgery and for some reason am not satisfied, can I have it undone?
I have been researching this and I think most of my questions have been answered except can the RNY be undone if for some reason I change my mind. - Nicole C
: Surgery Reversal
Question:
If I get this surgery and for some reason am not satisfied, can I have it undone?
I have been researching this and I think most of my questions have been answered except can the RNY be undone if for some reason I change my mind. - Nicole C
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12/22/02:
Nicole, I am sorry that you feel like we were jumping down your throat. I believe we were all being honest and open and thourgh with our information. We have had the surgery already and by no means are experts, but we do know what we know and you asked and we answered. We just wanted you to know the hard facts. There are some people who are under the impression that this is like a light switch and you can turn it on and off and it is just not so. You could have written me to my personal email and not my surgery page and made it look like I was just really evil answering your question if you felt like I was being mean to you. I was merely answering your question. This is the last time I will ever answer a question on the Q&A board. I wish you well and good luck with whatever you decide to do.
- Teena Adler
12/22/02:
You all didn't have to jump on me I am only in the researching stage I don't know what I want to do yet that's why I am asking questions. My goodness!!
- Nicole C
12/22/02:
I saw your post and I was not going to respond because I did not want to upset you or make you mad, but I kept looking at it and I had to say something. Do not be offended. This is a MAJOR LIFE CHANGING OPERATION. Some people die during this surgery and some people have majjor complications afterward.Not trying to scare these are just the realities of this and any kind of surgery. This is not something you take litely. I spent six years researching WLS before I finally made my mind up to do it. My health was getting worse and the risk of surgery were better than the risk I was given with my health problems so I went for it. I decided to do it ONLY AFTER HAVING MAJOR KNOWLEDGE OF WLS. Yes, in some cases surgery can be reversed, but if you are going into this with the thought that you are not going to like it DON"T DO IT. After surgery your insides will never be the same again if they have to reverse it. You will be functional, but there is no telling what affects you will have after being reveresed. DO NOT HAVE THIS SURGERY UNTIL YOU ARE SURE. PLEASE JUST WAIT IF YOU ARE NOT SURE. I wish you well and please people who read this and think I am being mean DO NOT SEND ME HATE MAIL. I am not being mean. Just being honest. If you need to talk about this please feel free to contact me. I am more than happy to try to calm your fears or share my knowledge and strentgh with you.
- Teena Adler
12/22/02:
Nicole, I am sorry that you feel like we were jumping down your throat. I believe we were all being honest and open and thourgh with our information. We have had the surgery already and by no means are experts, but we do know what we know and you asked and we answered. We just wanted you to know the hard facts. There are some people who are under the impression that this is like a light switch and you can turn it on and off and it is just not so. You could have written me to my personal email and not my surgery page and made it look like I was just really evil answering your question if you felt like I was being mean to you. I was merely answering your question. This is the last time I will ever answer a question on the Q&A board. I wish you well and good luck with whatever you decide to do.