Good Morning. No Topic, but stuff to say

I'm more comfortable around my DH naked.  He never said anything when I was heavy, but I would cover my body or just avoid being naked because I was unhappy with how I looked.  It is much better these days.

I have noticed how people treat me differently now that I'm not morbidly obese.  My opinion has much greater weight these days at work.  It is frustrating, but interesting.  My brain didn't stop working because my butt was big, but it appears to be the perception at work.

I have a persnickety cat, Mimi.  She rarely has the time of day for me, except in the mornings.  When I'm moving around or on the computer in the morning, she talks to me and demands that I pet her.  Once DH shows up, I become a nobody. 

Kay

Cats are funny that way!!


gail

I stand up for myself more. I work harder to make me time, and balance it with the time I give to DH and DD and DS. I used to just roll over for anything they wanted.

I feel like myself again, as I can do what I really like to do, and there were years where I could not because of my weight. 

I do feel a little strange, as men look at me.  It used to be that I was invisible, but not any more.  It's a sad note about our society that people make assumptions about the exterior of a person rather than look at what's inside.