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Ladytazz
on 1/17/12 2:30 am

Many people are telling me I look like I've lost weight, too, and my weight has been stable since Sept. I thought it was supposed to redistribute in a good way.

WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010

High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.

lerkhart
on 1/16/12 8:01 pm

RNY on 08/03/09

Tass I think the panties sound like a great idea.

Do you think your friends are really concerned about you? They are so used to seeing you one way and then this drastic change- maybe they are really worried.

As for the boyfriend not noticing, well it has it's advantages. DH does not pay attention to anything I do, but I can buy all the new clothes I want and he is clueless!!! Of course I need more shopping money....

Can you eat cheese? I love cheese maybe that could be one of your snacks.

Linda

14.5 lost pre-surgery 5'1 1/2"

Ladytazz
on 1/17/12 2:33 am

I think they are concerned because we have lost a lot of friends to cancer. Just in the last seven or so months 2 good friends died from cancer. The funny thing is neither of them really lost weight but both were diagnosed pretty shortly before they passed. I know they are worried but it scares me to think that they think I am so sick I may die.
I love cheese and add it to everything I can, eggs, chili, whatever I bake if I can add cheese I will. I have several pounds in my fridge right now waiting to be used.

WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010

High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.

Jody ***
on 1/16/12 9:38 pm - Brighton, MI

RNY on 10/21/08 with

I love the padded butt and leggings idea.

I only had 1 person on FB tell me I was too skinny - and that person hasn't seen me in person in over 35 years! I wondered "how does she know"???? Of course I did get the "you're not going to lose anymore weight are you?" and the "you'll fly away" comments. Of course I don't get those anymore...

Not sure what Jen's Glucerna is - you may want to check it out?

It sounds like you're doing the right things, especially if you haen't lost anymore weight.

HW-218/SW-208/CW-126/ Lowest Weight-121/Goal-125 - hit 8/23/09/Height-5'3"

Regain 30 lbs from 2012 to 2016 - got back on track and lost it. Took 8 months.
90+/- pounds lost BMI - 24 or so
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Ladytazz
on 1/17/12 2:35 am

I checked out the Glucerna. It is supposed to be a drink like Boost or Ensure but for diabetics so it doesn't have so much sugar. I wasn't impressed with the stats. I can get more from my protein drinks, especially if I add in fruit. I guess I figure if I am going to drink that many calories I may has well get in a lot of protein.

WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010

High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.

Mandy R.
on 1/16/12 11:39 pm - Callahan, FL

RNY on 11/07/11

people just need to mind their own business ! sending hugs your way Taz :) BTW your hair looks great :)
Mandy

HW-298 SW-251 Loss/Month post RNY(1)-23.5,(2)-23.3,(3)-9.9,(4)-10.6,(5)-8.9,(6)-7.7,(7)-4.2,(8)-7.5,(9)-1.7,(10)-10.8*first goal reached*,(11)-6,(12)-1.3,(13)-0.3,(14)+2.9-*changed scales that weigh 2lbs heavier*,(15)-0.3(16)-4.7(17),+5.8(18)-1.5,(19)+4.4,(20)-+4,(21)-1.2,(22)+3.5,(23)

Ladytazz
on 1/17/12 2:39 am

Thank you Mandy. I agree. Whatever happened to "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it.'? I know they aren't trying to be mean but it really isn't any ones business any more then it was when I was overweight. If I had health issues I wanted to make public I would. What really bugs me is if they are talking this way to my face I can imagine what they say behind my back. I mean, I love my friends but I know how we are. We talk and we gossip. All in the guise of helping. I hate the thought that I have been a topic for them.

WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010

High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.

Panda ..
on 1/16/12 11:59 pm

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Ladytazz
on 1/17/12 2:44 am

I actually have a sore on my tailbone from lack of padding. Those underwear will really be helpful in more ways then one.
I did have one friend that I saw after a while who said to me "Oh my God, what happened? You are so fat." I couldn't believe she said that but she is that kind of person, blunt and direct. When I saw her recently she made a comment about my weight and I said to her, "you can't be happy, before I was too fat and now I am too thin". She denies every saying that! Like I would make that up. Unfortunately, like many, I remember every hurtful thing that has ever been said to me.

WLS 10/28/2002 Revision 7/23/2010

High Weight (2002) 240 Revision Weight (2010) 220 Current Weight 115.

Panda ..
on 1/17/12 3:09 am

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