FEELING'S??????????????

Where is all the sisterhood and brotherhood you dad on ths form?

I have been a member from 2004 and I no longer want to go on the form did you notice how many of the old member have left ? Now ask your self's WHY

STOP CITICIZING all the time we all have our ways good and bad so what just be there for us

I am done saying what is on my mind

2004 was 265
2009 am  100

Please think before you say anything people have feelings

BOO

There is still sisterhood and brotherhood here. Sometimes it just gets buried a bit. I didn't have "real" sisters just two brothers much older than I. Always wanted a sister. . . That being said I think we here are a lot like a "cyber family" warts and all. Sometimes we "say" things that we shouldn't, sometimes things are taken the wrong way, sometimes we grouse too much and don't share the miracles that this surgery has brought to our lives.

I know that  there is always someone here.If I have a worry or a question in the middle of the night someone, somewhere will respond. Sometimes just that response helps even if it isn't a solution. Just knowing that someone is out there somewhere helps.

I miss some of the people who used to post and always enjoy when a member resurfaces.  I wish they would just post an upddate once in a while. I think the farther out we get it is natural to be online less. We're out there living life instead of hiding in the house, on the computer, in the refrigerator or cupboard. Just my humble opinion, but I find that happening to me. When I don't pop in once in a while I don't have the common experiences of sharing day to day life. No one else's fault, just life.

I don't have to agree with everyone. I don't have to take offered advice even when I've asked for it. Sometimes someone calls me on my BS and that can be a good thing if I can get out of my box long enough to see it. I have a real hard time being honest with myself. If I am able to see the problem then the next step of action is even harder. But that is growth and I do want to continue to grow. I hope to grow until the day I die.

Right on BOO!!! (((((( hugs ))))))

Having been on this board for less than a year, I just try to remember that those who dwell in negativity can not be living very happy lives.  It is difficult to retaliate against those for whom you feel sorrow. 
There is still enough kindness, good information and inspiration from the people on this forum to keep me checking in regularly.  Giving further energy to unhappiness serves no constructive purpose. 
Love, light and laughter always,  CV Linda

I guess I missed something.  I need to show up more often... hehe