(More) OH Women Problems - UGH
I like the phrase my bud Lou uses: "F.F.F." (friggin' flakey females)
Sometimes that phrase is so appropo .. And it has popped into mind of late in regard to OH ..
First, I find out that one local gal whom I first saw on the main forum, a lovely Latina pre-op at the time (since then post-op) is a bit "different" .. I knew she was a Buddhist and into hypnosis and T.M. and such, but then after we got to be good friends online (I even bought her a gift to bring to her at the hospital) she started mentioning little things that I thought were odd .. She finally gets to the point of telling me that she possesses "special powers", is a cliairvoyant and sometimes gets "drained" by all the energy she picks up from people in a crowd (hmmm no wonder she's been married 4 times @ 38) .. Unfortunately, I had hooked her up with another gal from NY that I met on OH who was having surgery the same week as her, so they could be surg-buddies, which they apparently became .. After deciding I didn't want anything to do with gal #1 (I took the gift back and got my money back, btw) I mentioned her strange communications to gal #2, in whom I also had an interest .. Flabbergasted, I find her rebuking me for finding anything odd with gal #1 ... Turns out I guess she's into the same "stuff" .. < CLUNK > So out with gal #2 ..
Second: I apparently got a lot of flack on my home state's forum in regard to my post asking people about whether they were a "C.L.O.P." (closeted post-op - i.e. a post-op who doesn't let anyone know they had surgery ) .. This seemed to result mostly from a misunderstanding by some as to my original post, to which I did a follow-up for clarification. Unfortunately, the clarification fell on deaf ears of some of the gals, and I started getting flamed by a few, using some language even we guys wouldn't use on here. Somewhere in the fracas it came up that two of the most beautiful gals on that forum (why is it always them?) have a, as they put it, "appreciation for the female body" or some such .. I had noticed earlier that one of these gals makes no bones about being "~" on her profile and says if you don't like it buzz off (to put it nicely), but had no idea about the other one (although I noticed in support group party pics she only seems to dance with other gals). They both end up calling me every name in the book on the thread for mentioning that fact, which I only did in defense .. I finally had to report and block them (I'm sure OH won't do anything about it, as usual) ... Now one of our fellow male members informs me that many of the gals on that forum have me on block b/c of all the trouble there .. Once again a clique has done its dastardly deed .. &:-/)
Oh well .. I think from now on I'll stay here where it's safe .. I see what you guys say about the other forums on here being crazy .. !

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on 1/14/08 6:12 am - Houston, TX
on 1/14/08 6:12 am - Houston, TX
OHHHHHHH I;m sending this to Gail!!!!!!
we will see how fast the Au Jus Dries up....
Russ
I posted a couple hours ago from work about the raging estrogen on the Main Board. It wasn't meant to offend but i really don't care if that was the way it was taken. My first stop at OH is here at the Mens Board. I find more usable and honest, direct information here than anywhere else on this site. If time permits I do take a look at the Main Board. I appreciate that this site can be many different things to a broad cross section of interests.
Personally, I don't require angels and prayers and group hugs. I come here for comparison of personal experiences and the combined expertise of those that have gone before me. I thank all of the contributors that have shared those things with me, directly or indirectly.
Thanks for the voice.
Rick