Pan Head toast
All went well. She was beautifull, of course. I can tell the way my SIL looks at her with those big puppy dog eyes that he has it bad. I prepared a little toast, I plagiarized some quotes I found on the internet and printed it out. Studied it and memorized it, then when the time come I said the hell with it and told them that I had prepaired and toast but I wasn't going to give it. I said some thing about her growing up so fast. I told him that I was sure we would come to love him because I know my daughter and she obviously saw that he is a kind and caring person and I was sure that we would also. That's not it word for word but that is kind of the jist of it. Everyones advice that I got here about speaking from the heart was right. What I found was that in the process of looking for a toast, that I was trying to find other peoples words to describe my feelings for her, but in doing so it helped me find my own words to say. So even though I didn't have them written down I had tought about it enough in the process that I it worked about best just to wing it. Even though she is his wife, she wil always be my little girl. I'll post some pictures in the near future. Thanks every one for your advice. pan head
