I Made A Hair Appt. For Tomorrow

I can't really do my hair right now even though I didn't have a stroke, I had stroke symptoms with the complicated migraine causing temporary paralysis on my left side. I'm no longer paralyzed but very weak but I'm getting my hair colored and flat ironed. What color do y'all recommend? I'm really graying for a 42 yr. old, I guess stress is doing this to me. I'm trying to decide on highlights or a lighter color. I will probably get two-strand twists in about 3 weeks. I finally found a Dominican hair stylist. So what do y'all think?

Hi Neenj 
  Glad to see you up and around and hope you get back to 100%.
Sorry I can't help you on your hair color don't even have an idea to want to do with mine. Hope you like the style that you want.

Hey lady - for maintenance reasons, I suggest you stick with your natural color - you will cover the grey and if you don't go back for a while, it won't look crazy.  From looking at your pics - you are a 1B or a 2 - jet black or deep dark brown.  If you're doing twists soon, don't do a permanent color, just a rinse. 

Hope you feel/get better soon suga!!! 

Thanks. Yeah my natural color is a dark brown. You're right because I don't have the money to upkeep a lighter hair color.