BAF Eulogy?????
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First off, I won't be rude so hello BAFers---vets, newbies, and lurkers!
I got an email a week or so ago, asking me had I left BAF since the only time I post is when I need something or want someone to read something. The email was not an ugly email....I consider this person a cyber-friend (I've never met them in person).
Then I was told that BAF is dead! I'm like WHAT...nobody emailed and asked me to do the eulogy
About 5 or 6 years ago when I first found OH and BAF, people would post, "I'm leaving BAF or Goodbye BAF" threads. That was one of my biggest pet peeves. Therefore, when I decided to tone down my BAF log ins, I did not feel the needed to explain why....I've never been the one to want brownie points or pity....and besides that I have NOT left BAF.
You know in LIFE LIFE....how you outgrow a person, place, or thing? Well, in a sense, that is what happened with me and BAF. Too many troll accounts....too many BL conversations....too much third grade bull**** and not enough unconditional, genuine support. The support is here....just not like I know it used to be.
In turn, I have given up so much. I was late finding out about one my cyber-favorites having a death in the family, one with a TEMPORARY lose in the family, my other cyber-favorite gave birth to her twins, one of my other cyber-favorites is pregnant....just so much! I'm missing that now.
But, I still have my friends ~ride or die for life~ whom I met on BAF and can call and cry, and curse, and complain about weight gain or lose, death or life, or just to simply pray or say thank you.
I signed on and saw like 4 or 5 posts from men...I was soooo happy because men come to BAF and just like a hurricane, they leave as fast as they came. I like the diversity. We women, not all some and not me
, can be catty creatures and run a man off ~even in cyberworld~ so it is good to see the old menfolk and the new.
My reason for this post--stop looking for the bad in BAF and appreciate the good. They are still here. Though I can't promise I will post 1800 times a day like I normally did ~roll eyes~
, but I will check in more often.
As for my WLS journey...it is still my own and my own only and I am still maintaining that 40 plus pound weight gain ~bwahahaha
~
I am still in damn double digits ~a 14 to be honest~ and my booty and hips and thighs are big as ever. ~roll eyes~
However, my tool still works....I just need to work my tool!
Remember, never give up!
Dedee
(throwing up my
for Lakers 2009)
First off, I won't be rude so hello BAFers---vets, newbies, and lurkers!
I got an email a week or so ago, asking me had I left BAF since the only time I post is when I need something or want someone to read something. The email was not an ugly email....I consider this person a cyber-friend (I've never met them in person).
Then I was told that BAF is dead! I'm like WHAT...nobody emailed and asked me to do the eulogy
About 5 or 6 years ago when I first found OH and BAF, people would post, "I'm leaving BAF or Goodbye BAF" threads. That was one of my biggest pet peeves. Therefore, when I decided to tone down my BAF log ins, I did not feel the needed to explain why....I've never been the one to want brownie points or pity....and besides that I have NOT left BAF.
You know in LIFE LIFE....how you outgrow a person, place, or thing? Well, in a sense, that is what happened with me and BAF. Too many troll accounts....too many BL conversations....too much third grade bull**** and not enough unconditional, genuine support. The support is here....just not like I know it used to be.
In turn, I have given up so much. I was late finding out about one my cyber-favorites having a death in the family, one with a TEMPORARY lose in the family, my other cyber-favorite gave birth to her twins, one of my other cyber-favorites is pregnant....just so much! I'm missing that now.
But, I still have my friends ~ride or die for life~ whom I met on BAF and can call and cry, and curse, and complain about weight gain or lose, death or life, or just to simply pray or say thank you.
I signed on and saw like 4 or 5 posts from men...I was soooo happy because men come to BAF and just like a hurricane, they leave as fast as they came. I like the diversity. We women, not all some and not me
, can be catty creatures and run a man off ~even in cyberworld~ so it is good to see the old menfolk and the new.My reason for this post--stop looking for the bad in BAF and appreciate the good. They are still here. Though I can't promise I will post 1800 times a day like I normally did ~roll eyes~
, but I will check in more often.As for my WLS journey...it is still my own and my own only and I am still maintaining that 40 plus pound weight gain ~bwahahaha
~I am still in damn double digits ~a 14 to be honest~ and my booty and hips and thighs are big as ever. ~roll eyes~
However, my tool still works....I just need to work my tool!
Remember, never give up!
Dedee
(throwing up my
for Lakers 2009) I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)
My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)
~Dedee
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Nicely put Ms. Dedee! 
GO Fisher!!! Go Kobe! GOOOooooo LAKERS!!!
GO Fisher!!! Go Kobe! GOOOooooo LAKERS!!! "I would rather be what God chose to make me than the most glorious creature that I could think of; for to have been thought about, born in God's thought, and then made by God, is the dearest, grandest and most precious thing in all thinking." by George MacDonald
March 2009 - 316
Current 290
March 2009 - 316
Current 290
If I had to describe you in one word........................hmmmm.......LOL....trying to find the right one...
truefaithfuldedicatedcommittednoholdsbarreddependablefriendofmine.....that's one word in the Dedeeictionary under the word: Hope (n)...
truefaithfuldedicatedcommittednoholdsbarreddependablefriendofmine.....that's one word in the Dedeeictionary under the word: Hope (n)...
I focus not on my disabilty; my focus is on my ABILITIES.
(Dedee, 2009)
My hearing impairment ENABLES me, not disables me.
(Dedee, 2008)
~Dedee
~~~tapping is this mic on?~~~ Is this mic on????
clearing THROTE not THROAT.....taking a shot of vodka..... me..me..meeeeee
[Chorus:]
Swing low, sweet chariot,
Comin' for to carry me home;
Swing low, sweet chariot,
Comin' for to carry me home.
I looked over Jordan,
And WHAT did I see,
Comin' for to carry me home,
A band of angels comin' after me,
Comin' for to carry me home.
[Repeat chorus:]
If you get there before I do,
Comin' for to carry me home,
Tell all my friends I'm comin' too,
Comin' for to carry me home.
go cowboys 2010!!!
clearing THROTE not THROAT.....taking a shot of vodka..... me..me..meeeeee
[Chorus:]
Swing low, sweet chariot,
Comin' for to carry me home;
Swing low, sweet chariot,
Comin' for to carry me home.
I looked over Jordan,
And WHAT did I see,
Comin' for to carry me home,
A band of angels comin' after me,
Comin' for to carry me home.
[Repeat chorus:]
If you get there before I do,
Comin' for to carry me home,
Tell all my friends I'm comin' too,
Comin' for to carry me home.
go cowboys 2010!!!
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