Very Discouraged

(((((((((((((((((((( Hugs )))))))))))))))))))))))))) I did the same thing ... compared myself to everyone who had surgery the same month. And then I had Ms. Jen, who came AFTER me and lost faster than me, too! So I guess most of us will do that comparison thing ... but we are ALL losing. At our own pace. And you're doing especially well!!! Congrats on those 60 pounds!! Wish I could see you again ... I bet I wouldn't recognize you! Dawn

hey, i can totally relate. i had to stop focusing on everyone else and just on my weight. now, 10 months out from surgery i have lost less than most in my "group" but i wear a 10-12 and i feel great. i got "hit on" when we on vacation in florida and my husband got the biggest kick out of it. he says i am so much more fun now. don't focus on anyone but you. 60lbs. is amazing. i am down almost 120lbs from my all time high. i should be at goal by now but i don't care. i am still losing just really slowly. i'll get there, i have no doubt about it. it just takes some of us longer than others.