Got the Answer

Sherrie I am so very sorry. If your credit is standing in the way of a loan then don't give up because credit can be improved.  I see it all the time.  I know it makes another hoop to jump through but please don't give up.  We love you!

Thanks for all the nice comments and encouragement. Thanks to all of you. I am going to take a break from thinking about the surgery and try to get my head back on. I can feel the depression taking over me again and I have got to kick myself out of it. If I am not on here or seem like I am avoiding you all its not that.. its self preservation. I will be back someday. I just have to do this for me.. I have to disconnect myself from the idea of having wls. thank you all for being there for me

well think of it this way....  when I had a problem, i turned to food to help me feel better.  I hope that food isn't one of your crutches like it was for me.  there's no better time than right now to turn your frustration into an opportunity to be mad and motivate you to get past this and do what you can until the right opportunity for surgery re-appears.

I think Amy had a great suggestion about repairing your credit enough to get the financing.  But hey, get motivated...  get better.  Don't leave.  Feeling alone isn't the answer....  feeling loved can pull you back into focus.  This is an opportunity to make certain that this situation doesn't own you, but you own the situation.

Big love and always here for you,

T.

Sherry, I am sorry that things aren't working out as planned. Please don't give up. It will all be okay Keep the faith and it will all come together. In the mean time continue to work on a healthy lifestyle. Best of luck to you.

Rita

Sherry, I know this is a very hard time for you. Please don't move too far away from the people that support and care for you. We all want you to have what is best for you and that is WLS. So please hang in there. Give your self some time to process this challenge but DO NOT GIVE UP! There is a way, you are not aware of it yet.
HUGS
Cheryl