Sweet like candy to my soul.....

Sweet like candy to my soul….

 

I just wanted to take the time to publicly thank those individuals who have “made a difference” to my experience of going through the surgery and beyond.  Their selfless and giving ways are endearing to me, and I cannot express my gratitude more.   I planned on going through this whole process alone.  I planned on making certain that no one knew much more than my name, however the process evolved, and I found a family who supported my questions, my racy remarks in the forum, and my mysterious ways.

I’m not the easiest person to deal with sometimes, (I know shocking!), however this group of ladies made it easy for me to engage them in honest friendship without hesitation.  Most of the people who have known me for a decade know very little about me due to my quirky personality.   I’m a very private person with a very public side.  I have never met a stranger.  I always try to engage conversation with excitement and enduring qualities.  Instead of me having to be the engaging party, these ladies decided they would welcome me with open arms. 

Kim, Ruth, and Rita, made this process much more bearable than having to go it alone.  Nearly all of you have welcomed me, but I feel as though these girls have gone above and beyond to make the difference that made it “OK” to have someone else’s help to get through surgery and my mischievous and quirky way that I handled recovery.  Kim brought me to the family of people that I cherish as close friends that I deeply care about.  Ruth spent her time to make certain that if i needed something, she was there and never flinched when I felt terrible, and was there to answer the questions when i questioned my motives for doing this.  And last but not least, Rita made it a point to take my 104 fever seriously enough to make certain that I remedied the situation to walk me through the steps necessary to get past the problems.  She still *****es about me not doing the right thing, but i deserve it, and i try to correct myself.  We're truly blessed to have their kindness and charity in the forums and in person.

Although I’m thankful to all of you, it was important to me to recognize these girls for their outstanding care and support of a Caribbean wildchild….

 

T.

Bro you nailed it on the head about the 3 of them.  They are 3 of the most wonderful gals I have ever had the pleasure of calling my friends.  I haven't even met any of them in person YET, but i feel like I have known them for a long time.  We are a family here and it is such an honor to call you my brother and I hope you feel the same.  My door, heart, and shoulder are always open to you man.  My phone number is only a dial away when you need to ***** about something or just want to hear a friendly voice.  This is a journey no one should go through alone, and I am so glad I have each and every person here to go through it with. 

T: I love you too sweetie.  You are one in a million and I am proud to have gone through this time with you!  You have given me as much as you think I have given you!   I love you my dear friend!   R

I know exactly what you mean! I was not nervous even up to the minute I was rolled into the OR. And it is not because I am a nurse. It is because of the support and information received here. And the hospital visits meant so much!

T. Don't make me start crying right here before I start my work week. It was my pleasure to befriend you and to take care of you as a patient. It is more of a pleasure to ***** at you. It's the motherly instinct in me. I hope you know that if you ever have concerns or questions you can call on me. I may not tell you what you want to hear, but I will tell you straight up what I think you should do. I love ya man, "like a fat kid loves cake" I wish you the best on your new journey. Oh and by the way, up your protein. Man cannot live by water alone. Okay, Okay.

T, it was such a pleasure to meet you at dinner in Edmond.  I know a lot of us wondered about this guy from the forums called "Cowboy" and were you "real"!!! (ha)  You are very real and honest most likely to a fault.  You meet very few people these days like this.  I'm one of those who call a spade a spade and you either like me or not.  I LIKE YOU Mr. T.  You are a very generous person whom we all can tell loves people.   I agree about the 3 ladies.  They all mean a lot to me and have helped and encouraged so many of us and many more to come.  What an awesome WLS family we have.  The journey has been a blast so far and I can't wait until we all get to our "goal".  We just keep our eye on the prize but need to remember that the journey to the prize is just as important.  We get to learn so much about ourselves and what we want out of life.  It's our turn to take time for ME.  Most of us have always put the needs of other first.....so take care of YOURSELF Mr. T!!!  - Debbie

i haven'tmet you yet but hopefully will tomorrow but you sound like an awesome guy who knows exactly what he wants. i hope you stay in touch with all of us!

What you have described was a lovely thing to behold from afar. I only know you from your posts on the board but I could tell you are "one in a gazillion".  I love coming here to be educated and to keep in touch for the wonderful people here. Those three gals are the core of what makes it so extrodinary. I am very a happy for you and wish you great success and many blessings.  Cheryl

There's truly nothing like caring people! : )

Blessings to you, Cowboy.

You are truly gallant, because you didn't "out" me for asking you what your intentions were.....LOL.

This IS a special group of caring concerned people-one of my concerns about WLS in Oklahoma was that it would not be accepted as readily here as in Dallas, and I know I have gotten more genuine support here than I ever would have there.

Do listen about the protein though-you want to nourish your body as you lose so you'll have some nice muscles to show off.  (I am genetically programmed to spout medical advice)