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everything is gonna work out for you. you will be fine and GOD will take care of you and her!! love ya man!!

I'm glad you're feeling a bit better and I'm still praying. Either way, it's going to work out and be a blessing. ; ) Stay busy and enjoy your hobbies and the weeks will pass a little more quickly. Hugs to you! 

My take is that you took precautions-so if it happens it was a meant to be thing and same thing goes for the other two kiddos.  If it DOES happen again, might be tube tying time unless she wants more though.

As for the two parent home-that's really only ideal if it's the right two parents, and knowing for sure what is going to happen for the next 20 years is beyond most of us.  So don't even go there.  Go mow your lawn.

I am glad that you have found the strength you needed.  We already talked in PM, you know i am always here.  Hugs to ya

Dan...  You already know from talking to me that I'm here for ya...  I will keep praying for you, but I agree with the other ladies that the timing, ovulation wise, does sound off.  Hopefully it all works out like you want it to.  I'll continue to send many positive thoughts your way. **hugs**

Do your best and God will do the rest...that's what I tell my kids.  It works whether you are 3 or 33!  You are going to be okay no matter what happens.  And being a child whose mom has been married 4 times!!!  Can I just say being LOVED is more important than if your parents are married and living together. 

I'm not 33 I am 34...silly :-P Yeah I know I am a butthead

I think it's AA that has the saying, "Let go and let God." That's great that you are trying the same. Just an FYI: Some pretty amazing kids come from 1 parent homes, blended families, etc. so if there is a baby it would be lucky indeed to have you in its life. However, I think you are probably in the clear as well. The same thing happened to me after the birth of my son prior to my having my tubes tied. The doctor said to be extremely careful...and we were...but it broke, and I was sweating that out for 3 days before the surgery..they did the early test, and it turned out fine and surgery proceeded according to plan.